There’s a particularly nasty group of viruses out there. Viruses that influence your thinking. They influence how you see the world. They are everywhere yet no one is talking about them: Memetic viruses. Contagious beliefs that hijack your thinking. These thought-viruses can come from anywhere: The news, social media, your parents, friends, colleagues, teachers, even well-meaning mentors… And once they’re in your mind, they’ll shape how you see the world. You don’t choose them… you catch them. And if you don’t examine them, they’ll quietly shape your entire life. “You’re falling behind” Every conversation you have, every scroll, every post you look at, every headline you read is subtly reprogramming your mind. And in today’s society so much of it is geared towards: -Fear How good do you feel after a one hour doom scroll? That’s not just energy… that’s influence. It’s entering your brain and shaping how you see the world. It’s never been more important to protect yourself against these thinking viruses. -Curate what you allow into your brain (people, media, content) You have the power to decide what ideas get to take root in your mind. And when you protect your attention: You also protect your potential. Much love, PS: What I’m reading: Klara and the Sun by Kazuo Ishiguro PPS: This Tuesday I did a Linkedin Live on "How to Escape the Overthinking Trap" you can check it out here. |
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A powerful (but confronting) question I often ask my clients is this one: If absolutely no one could judge you, how differently would you live your life? The answers often involve: -Less Overthinking -Quitting unfulfilling jobs -Following passions -More self-confidence -More Freedom etc. The fear of people’s judgement often prevents us from living the life we truly want to live. And although it’s hardwired into us for survival… It’s possible to minimise the power it has over us. Here are 3...
It’s something you might do without noticing. Something that slowly chips away at your self-confidence. Something that destroys your integrity and self-worth. It’s a silent but deadly enemy called: Breaking promises to yourself. Sound familiar? “I’ll get back to you on Friday” “Next year I’m going to start a business” “Tomorrow morning I’m going to the gym” Every time you say you’ll do something and you don’t: You slowly erode the relationship between you and your word. You slowly deteriorate...
This Monday I did a very powerful exercise. I made myself a cup of coffee, set a timer for 30 mins and started writing down all the lessons I would give my 29 year old self (just before he quit his corporate job). I then cleaned them up a bit so he could print them out and put them on his fridge. This was the final edit:1) Don’t ask people for advice who aren’t living the life you want to live. 2) “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t either way you are right” - drill this quote...